Break the ice offline

Once you have met online to a young man took me several weeks and maybe months on an online dating website, and you felt that after a long correspondence and a few phone calls are already prepared to go on a date, but leaves you worry. You worry about how safe is your dating. First dates - it is always difficult and mysterious. After all, you do not know yet what is the your virtual companion, and suddenly you find it difficult to communicate and talk stall and started.

If you feel that not very much and strive for a personal meeting with one another through correspondence, then you should check yourself. How comfortable do you feel when communicating with this person in the dating website. Listen to your own feelings, put on an inner feeling and try to answer such questions as: Do you interested in your source, causes a feeling of respect, whether he is interested in your persona? It is basically, you have every right to change his mind and is not obliged to meet with him.

If you still decided to go on a date and you want what would it be safe, administered it in a public place, to determine in advance the date and time. The first dates should be short and it is desirable that it took place during daylight hours, especially if you met in absentia. It is best to chat over a cup of coffee at a cafe or find another simple little pastime that anyone of any non-binding. Try to interview did not last longer than one or two hours. This time is quite enough to get to know each other and gain first impressions, and you will not rack their brains to even say this and avoid the awkward silence.

Sometimes you feel a tendency to adventurism, but if your new friend offers you a ride, you better be abandoned. In no case do not let him get into your apartment. Necessarily taking with him to meet a mobile phone, before that telling a friend or someone from the family members about where you go and with whom. Nobody will judge if you realized that you feel uncomfortable with this guy, you want to go, quickly and politely ending date.

Of course, you want to look good first dates, but do not overdo it, otherwise you both will feel too much strain. If you feel more comfortable in jeans, and you prefer a simple hairstyle, you should not come at the first meeting in the cocktail dress. All that is necessary - it's simple makeup, some simple jewelry, perfume and reserved, but not too conservative attire.

Do not expect too much from the first date and be realist. Even if you previously corresponded for several months, your dating in its essence is a blind date, so that way to him and refers. Your guy could be honest when communicating via the Internet, but the real meeting can be very shy. So do not build themselves long-term plans even before it. Do not worry, if you do not get that dreamed about, at least, you at least get an important experience. Therefore, good cheer, friends and forth on a date!

Sunday, 1 May 2011 09:03