Dating with a co worker

Dating at work ... Banal option, you say. And what, in fact, may consist acquaintance at work, but dry presentation name - middle name, title, and a cursory look at the future colleague? You can sit for years next to her, and so nothing about it and do not know. Nonetheless, office romance is a strong place in human relations, this social phenomenon has dedicated books and movies, dating at work often end in romantic relationships and marriage, rightly so. This popular service has a reasonable explanation - if the average citizen of a third of their lives asleep, the second third, he spends at work.

As well meet at work, in the broadest sense, how do you know a person better, if he is sympathetic and willing to meet? At first acquaintance with the man usually occurs a certain image in the subconscious, which in the future, we associate the object dating. This property of our psyche, the formation of the image affects the appearance, look, a replica of the person we are familiar with, but does not affect its character, because at the time of his acquaintance, we cannot yet know. That is why often the first impression of the site dating can be wrong. To learn, you do not necessarily ask ten - fifteen traditional questions about life.

Even with the answers, you cannot be argue that familiarity was held. Learn to observe the person who interests you. It is in a working environment you can learn a lot - as a person responds to comments that his annoying, touchy if he, as relates to people around him, whether he is punctual, whether his appearance. Watching, you can get answers to many questions and, therefore, know someone close that, in fact, called to meet. Only when incurred in the subconscious image of the object dating supplemented by the objective results of your observations, you can attempt to say so verbal dating that goes beyond the service relationship, or to ask the traditional question: "What are you doing tonight?"

The recommendations of the notes - especially personal experience, and the author does not pretend to conduct dating in this way. I wish that after reading the article, readers will reflect on the fact that it requires not just a specific set of actions, and thoughtful behavior, only familiarity can be helpful.

Monday, 2 May 2011 20:27