Dream couple: between truth and myth

Did anyone actually see those couples of models which some of us admire in glossy pictorials and depict their modern life couple as cool or perfect? Fashion magazines feed us with bright and shining dream pair idea. And we sincerely believe this myth, after which we run almost the entire youth.

Then panic and do not understand what happens to us: hero complex on a white horse in an upgraded version. We want to be like those people, but never ask ourselves how we also see around us. How many couples with a coefficient equal distribution of beauty and intelligence have encountered? Many? Usually, she is more interesting or he is more attractive. If both are in the same level, it will not work. Look at models dating rock stars, actors dating singers or any other combination of apparent success.

Most ended up in court because it is extremely difficult to keep your independence and individuality in a couple that seems to be near the permanent care of each other by increasing the standard of personal beauty. I think it is realistic to say that the truly successful pairs that I have encountered are consisted of one with a charming personality and one with an elegant and refined body.

It is a kind of universal law, I think. If both are brilliant, jealousy and fear slowly makes its way into the dating life. Finally, a happy relationship does not mean high class clothing and style venerable imprint. The only class that has a graduation is that of wisdom for heart, and the only style that would have to master it is to love.

Tuesday, 7 June 2011 13:50