Flirting: inerrant lifestyle

The office, the gym, the club or in the dental office. Location is irrelevant in this case, and the most important question is another: do you know where to draw the line between flirting and adultery?

We depart from the presumption that you are already dating somebody and in your world comes a new protagonist. Perhaps he is a new colleague or other fitness coach, the guy who repaired the air conditioning or the one who helps you do your schedule in service. He is nice, looks good and you swear that you like, or he is very helpful anyway.

In brief, the hero looks good, speaks well and acts with you ... otherwise. You like this stuff, and let yourself carried by the energy of wave, although you know it is dangerous. Just because you know you is approaching too fast at the invisible line between an innocent play and a dating game that can leave victims behind.

The process is simple: without realizing you spend twice as much time thinking about what to wear, make up more carefully, look much too often in the mirror, perfume even when you do not need and wake up studying gestures, behavior and smile. Symptoms are well known, the diagnosis is clear.

Some psychologists claim that women simply cannot help to flirt with a man that they first met, even if they are not at all interested in the person of, or at least know that they will not develop something else to another level. I do not necessarily believe it. Yes, some women instinctively flirt with all men, but most are not necessarily so.

I rather think that you can label a man in the first minutes you know and you can realize almost instant if you are attracted to (physically) or not. Beyond the attraction, there are many other reasons why you choose to flirt or not.

Sunday, 19 June 2011 11:22