Humorous friends, childish partners

"Career" teenagers prefer to watch TV all day, flirt on online dating or just party with their friends. When one is confronted with domestic work and hard decisions, it groans and tries to shirk responsibility. There is no wonder a serious relationship seems so difficult to a such immature person.

Ideal partner: Humorous, but adult
Most of the women want a man who is lively, humorous and spontaneous. Despite all the joy he should still be on his own feet, can manage responsibility and take seriously the dating game with his partner. The short version: It is good if the dating partner does not take each and every matter too seriously, but a certain maturity should always be present.

The family researcher Dan Kiley wrote in his book "The Peter Pan Syndrome - Men Who Have Never Grown Up", about those men who met only the first part of the wish: They are cheerful and enthusiastic, but shy away from the seriousness of life.

Career teenager: General depiction
A career teenager is a man who might not want to take responsibility in any aspect of his life. Most of the time he forgets to think about possible consequences of his actions and do not want to keep in mind most of the great obligations. Their main occupation is "freedom" and do not like to follow rules.

Hardly surprising, an "eternal teenager" finds it difficult to have a serious relationship or an exceptional career. On the first dating event, he seems so funny and creative as if you had met a man who is the equivalent of a grand prize at the lottery.

A funny buddy, but not a suitable partner
Moreover, if you both choose to live together, you must deal with a bunch of childish issues. Your dating partner will probably not want to pursue certain duties, and especially when it comes to the budget, you cannot put away the video games and hero movies.

If you want to get the relationship to the next level, you should be able to slip in addition to the role of sweetheart the role of mother. Some of them are very fond of being looked after. Perhaps this is how your patience and love are put to the test.

Make clear that you are serious
To prevent such a scenario, you should make it clear from the start, no matter if you meet him on dating online or in real world, what a relationship means to you. Which are your desires and what are you willing to give away in order to be together.

If it turns out very early that your ideas are very different, you might want to think again about whether a relationship with this man is really a good idea. Finally, it is better to figure out which are the odds of a successful partnership and, moreover, prevent a future thought of failure.

Thursday, 2 February 2012 16:09