Loneliness: contemporaneous disease

Single and available, this is the life story of more and more women, regardless of age and occupation. For many of us is increasingly becoming harder to find Mr. Right.

Perhaps, very relevant also is the fear of this syndrome, which makes us to run like a wave in another relationship just because of fear for unfulfillment, or ahead of time we get bored and always ask ourselves, are we there yet? Do people really still truly love? Success, independence, career, social contexts are managed to become substitutes for love.

Psychologists compete in advising us to study our dating history in order to find balance. It is harder to have a relationship. Today, self condemn is the most fashionable and most available tool. Casual dating, we are in crisis of time and without a precise target. We dive into work or one-night-stands to forget the emotional dilemmas and we are scared at the thought that any future marital attempt could be doomed to failure.

There are many people who have been dating with the same person for a long time in our circle of acquaintances. We always wondered how they did it, and especially how they managed to keep their relationship intact and why, for them, while not blowing in the opposite direction with rapidity insinuating loneliness.

Maybe this is the ultimatum, the epidemic of this century, a constant masked search of dating stability in which we do not do anything but cover each other pain.

Wednesday, 8 June 2011 10:07