Love does not live here anymore

Themes of social isolation are now becoming more and more popular. Well, we have no time to get acquainted with people because we build our careers, have housing problems to solve ... and when we register on online dating we hope to meet our true love. Or maybe it is all in vain?

I want to share with you the experience on one of my friends and the results of her experiment. My friend is a young girl with a normal appearance, takes evening dance classes, well-read and interesting. As regards professional life she has everything a girl can dream, but ... in evenings she comes home tired and goes to sleep at once.

Particularly, acute loneliness manifests itself during the holidays, when she receives flowers and other soft toys from friends, but her phone stays silent. Only one girl friend calls her, one whom she envies. She envies while carefully she is hiding it at night crying into her pillow and trying to hide her loneliness under make up. Of course, she tried to find a way out. Once at her eyes caught one on a well-known dating website. And, miracle! Literally, letters started to come to her inbox.

Yes, she wrote back and the photographs blow up her imagination. But oddly enough, she ended in tears, with the conclusion that all men are bastards. When we are building our life, we try develop it step by step and forget that time might become, some day, our enemy. In some cases, like the above one, achieving a successful career is not enough if we forget to live, at least some times, life to the fullest.

Tuesday, 5 July 2011 13:03