Relationship prospects at work

You spend most of the day at work. Inevitably, at some point, someone will get your attention more than all others. And then you start thinking... is or is not indicated a relationship at work? Dating with a coworker has some good parts. At first, nobody knows, you hide from the eyes of the world and entertain yourselves making cryptic signs. The hours at work go easier, you work overtime to get just the two of you and look forward to see in the office monday morning. Passion is your ultimate advantage!

You have the same interests, same problems to solve, almost the same friends and understand each other perfectly. You are a team that does everything together. But after the early euphoria, problematic talks might occur. If today you are nervous, do not want to talk or just want to stay with the girls? His scrutinizing eyes will suffocate you, you will argue that you spoke more with a colleague than with him ... Soon you will get to have one friend - him, and ignore the others. Home or while dating you cannot detach in the arms of the one who knows that he missed you. You will have similar discussions over and over which are work related. If you are made for each other, all these small talks will link you more, but...

What do you do when the relationship turns out to be just an affair that has failed? When you realize that you are not compatible, only then begins the ordeal. If you find that it is not so nice to see at work and at home with the same person? The good thing about a break up is that once the separation is complete, you should not see that person. Or in the office, the situation is just fixed around. You will meet as often as before and if the others have heard about your dating romance they will have material for gossip for months.

If you chose to say stop, the ego might make him have a malicious attitude at work. If he chose to say stop, are you sure you will be able to see him moving on without you: flirting, dating and even falling for another one? All this can affect your ability to focus and effectiveness in office. Think twice before you step in! Even if the beginning is full of passion, things not always end up well. Before stepping into the game, make sure you weigh well the chances of success! If you feel that you should risk, then "do it"!

Tuesday, 14 June 2011 12:50