Signals of the dating status

The first real encounter is perhaps the most crucial foundation of a relationship. The course of the dating event can decide whether you see each other again or maybe keep looking for the right one. Bellow are presented the signs of a good date and what might indicate the opposite.

Anticipation.
To meet someone you only know from online dating and telephone calls is an exciting experience. The most crucial question for you and your dating partner probably is: "I like this person, but is the chemistry right?". To be nervous before the first encounter is not unusual. However, you should not forget that it is simply a loose appointment in order to get to know each other. There is no sense to sink into self-doubt because there are no obligations, only opportunities.

But: On the other hand, a too low level of excitement might be an indication that the cherished hope is not particularly large. What you should do is to enter the relationship with a little spark, also try to spend some time with your potential partner.

Informality.
The incipient minutes often influence the threads of the conversation that break the ice. During the small talk, you and your dating partner are looking for commonalities such as similar interests or hilarious stories.

But: If the conversation does not go as good as you have hoped or you excel with several subjects, you should be on guard.

Curiosity.
If interest is present, both partners feel the desire to learn as much as possible about the other person, the path is open for a prosperous relationship.

But: If you notice that your conversation companion seems rather uninterested and prefer to look at the environment, you can assume that it would prefer to end the encounter.

Great chance.
As the dating event is over, you can perceive how much your companion enjoyed the time spent with you. It might appear relaxed because of such a lovely time spent together. In this case you should take advantage of the mutual attraction and be part of a hug or a brief kiss.

But: If your dating companion speeds up the event or has a antagonistic body language, those are clear signs that despite of the assertions it did not have a great time with you.

Spectacular sequel.
The first dating night was great and you would like to repeat it? Then a message through online dating or a phone call to say thank you for the prodigious night would be preferable as early as possible. You should use the opportunity to suggest the possibility of a subsequent phase.

But: Too much silence might indicate that there is no interest in further contact or too much time elapses between the initial dating and the next message, you should be more than suspicious and cancel the future plans as regards the person in question.

Sunday, 18 October 2011 16:53