You write the novel

Life is made in such way that not all of our romantic dating degenerates into a close relationship or a great love. Not all close relationships lead to marriage, not every marriage lasts long and not all of us have a happy life. But love becomes, for each of us, the subject of our life at a certain point of our journey.

Direct refusals or bitter disappointments to someone those are two lessons, which, like it or not, life teaches us. Our youthful enthusiasm and our adult novels often have a sad and not a romantic end. When the relationship did not exist, when we tried everything and we feel exhausted, we have to take the bitter, but the only right decision.

Your unfortunate dating affair would bring you pain, but there were happy moments, too. Alternate change of pain and joy, always gives you a feeling of fullness of life. Suppose it was just an illusion, but the soul felt love and suffering lived in it. But now it seems dead or asleep, and nothing in life is any longer happy, everything seems empty and unimportant.

This is quite normal for the most acute period of separation. The most important thing is not to be angry with yourself and do not attempt to deal with the emptiness in your soul, in order to create an illusion around your active life. The main thing is that you have to decide everything for yourself. And besides, you can easily afford some human weaknesses. The main thing is not to carry the stigma of a weak-willed person. Everything can be important to the mind and soul, but do not let yourself tuned to the fact that you are no longer together.

If your dating with someone did not add up, if the man you were going to give your life turned you down, keep in mind that life has kept you from a long experience with a man who will not be able to evaluate any of your beauty, nor the purity of your desires or your affection, nor, finally, your uniqueness.

Just imagine how lucky you are! Of course, you have every right to grieve, feel sorry for yourself and for some decent time sit at home. Just do not get carried away! You really got the lucky chance to start over and begin a much more confident relationship using your positive experience.

Saturday, 11 June 2011 13:14